Love is so grand, so exciting , so everything.
When does that moment come when we question love and analyse our relationship. Is our relationship of love when someone does it for me or when someone has open their heart to allow you to open your heart.
Love is so unpredictable yet our logic is very predictable. When we try and make sense of it we can’t unless we begin to doubt our relationship. It makes no sense, just like love.
The more you think the more you struggle.
What are your values???? Do you have any or do you do whatever comes.
When you fall in love - often all your values seem to walk out the door. Total trust……..mmmmmmm
It is a good thing? , however our values of respect of yourself and others still need to be hovering around. “Actions speak louder than words”, who said that, BUT very true.
You can feel great love, but the only question you may ask is how am I being treated. Love brings kindness with no payback. Sharing without complaining. No asking for favours, just because they love you. Love is truly beautiful when both parties enjoy each other with mutual respect. Not one give more than the other. Being supportive without doing it for them. If love really lasts it is a choice of enjoyment not of duties.
Hi Al,
Finally had time for a read.
I like your bit about love being mutually respecting and unconditional. Love sometimes means giving space with reassurance for the emotional safety of that person. Am contemplating a little of that… not sure if it is truly what would be best for both though.
Too much of others impacting on what we are… no time to talk or to have time for us to grow and share in, or to enjoy what we really are… which is lovely when we do