There seem to be so many people lost for some reason or other, and many lost people do things to gain attention. I suppose the sad part is innocent people get hurt.
In my job I see alot of lost children. Some who are being smothered and other that have no one. Each of us wants to be the best parent, but hey how hard is that sometimes.
How would you parent yourself? What sort of parent would like to have, so you can feel loved, acknowledged, accepted and able to develop skills for life. Would you like a parent to yell at you, I know I hated being yeld at, I avoid yelling at my children and find another method if possible. Working at stategies to be a good parent is sometimes difficult when both are working or busy.
I have come to the conclusion that our family works as a team. We find out the jobs and share with whoever is about. If you are out doing your thing then maybe you could do another job later on. Everyone has commitments and everyone has jobs, but everyone needs equal fun time too. I’s all divided and appreciation is BIG. Support is also part of the team. It certainly isn’t left to one person. If need be, we sit and make a list together on a Sunday night and manage our time. Businesses do that, why couldn’t families do it to. A good organisation is a happy one, same with family.
Many of us could be less lost because we have direction in our week. We could feel appreciated for small things and feel part of a connection to others in our team. Feeling connected seems such an important part of life, so why not.
Lost comes from being disconnected. Connect with your family and friends. Remember the ones who love you, and remember most of all you are loveable. You are allowed to be loved.
I must fly……have a great day ali www.whyisthishappeningtome.com.au
